Have you heard this song by Laurie Berkner? I’m Not Perfect (Click on the title to listen, then hit backspace when your done, it will bring you back to this post!) It is the perfect song to accompany this Mommy Fun Fact.
Mommy Fun Fact # 14 ~ I’m not perfect
In the past few months I have been thinking a lot about the hopes and dreams I started out with for M and M. Probably because they are getting past the toddler/preschool age and starting to make real, independent decisions. I’m searching for signs that we are doing what we set out to do.
When I think about these hopes the list is long. I hoped (and still hope) for them to be creative, independent, confident, kind, honest, and open. I hoped for them to be happy, grateful, and funny (since we love a great sense of humor around here).
There is one thing that isn’t on the list, something I never even considered for them (and yet sometimes I demand it of myself… silly me). I would not wish for them to be perfect.
With perfection we lose character, we lose learning opportunities, we lose a special beauty that comes with differences. My wish for M and M is that they strive to do their best, that they are constantly growing and improving, and that they learn to embrace their mistakes.
Here are some ways to reinforce this “not so perfect” standard.
1. Sing I’m Not Perfect A LOT. Because it’s so true, and what better way to learn something than through music? (Even if it is off key and louder than it should be!)
2. Read books about people who are less than perfect, and talk about how they learn from their mistakes.
3. BE NOT PERFECT! Seeing how you handle your imperfections, mistakes and miss steps will help your little one figure out what to do when they aren’t quite perfect. Admit when you’ve made a mistake and let them know how you plan to handle it.
Have a GREAT not so perfect (but really fun, educational and busy) day!
This post is a part of the Mommy Fun Fact Series.